May 9 2023 Public update about our twins that I posted to Facebook

 On May 9 I made the first post about our girls to Facebook.  It read:

"So Tella and I are expecting identical twin girls in November. There may be a complication with one of them though that would be very serious if it is present (they can't tell yet), so please keep us in your prayers. Hopefully the complication is not present."

Though I may fill the details in later, our initial diagnosis was on April 16th for something called a cystic hygroma, which has a 10% survival rate.  We were extremely concerned, and many people prayed.  It either resolved itself or never existed.  About two weeks later, we were told we had no cystic hygroma, but we may have ectopia cardis and an omphalocele, which also had a 10% survival rate.  That's what this post would have been about.

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